Can a friendship be repaired? There are times when a friendship can hit a rough patch, but a difficult time can have you feeling like the friendship is beyond repair. If you really care about a person, is it worth the strain to end the friendship rather than try to repair what caused the strain to begin with?
To me, friendships are very important in our lives. As humans, we need that someone to turn to when the world throws its all at us. Mending a friendship depends on how important this person is to you. Not everybody is meant to be in your life forever. Some people are just there for a season. When their season is up, it’s up. God places those special people there, and you feel it when it’s real. It’s necessary to figure out is this person and the reason y’all are not talking worth it. Real friendships are worth fixing by putting pride to the side and moving forward. A real friend would agree with me. What do you think?
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I do feel a friendship can be repaired. I also believe how the friends move forward depends on why the friendship was broken. With everything in the world, it’s important to make peace with others and not have any hate in your heart. Th friendships that can be repaired can become better than it was before once the two people discuss what the issue is and leave it there. Going back to things you “say” you have let go of have the potential to cause the same problem it did before. Even after talking about what caused the break in the friendship, restoration might not be the answer. I think it’s ok for friendships to end as somethings aren’t meant…
In my experience in mending a broken friendship, yes repair can happen. Prior to attempting to repair my friendship I did a few things to help me decide my approach. I reflected and wrote down the good and bad, decided that I could have communicated better, and then decided I wanted to reach out to my old friend. When reaching out I explained why I decided to end the friendship, we both agreed we could have handled things back then better. However, with time we grew and was able to pick up like we didn’t take years off being friends.
I agree friendships are important, but life has taught me that all friendships very much have an expiration date and not everyone along the journey we call life are called for this position. Some friends become envious, jealous, and suck all the positive energy out of a person. Times have changed people don't celebrate each other's success or happiness anymore they are way too busy competing with one another, and I have learned from my experiences that if you aren't for me and can't celebrate my shine with me, I don't need you nor do I need to find a reason to repair my friendship with you. I just embrace what we once had and wish you well for my…